I have undiagnosed ocd, I suspect contamination to a degree and perfectionism (just right ocd). I didn’t realize the effect this was having in the relationship till it was over. Little things in the house that I did, that he found annoying or exhausting.
I worried about the future, had a lot of the same conversations. Wanted things ‘just right’ for us to progress, family etc. I realise now how important it is to go more with the flow. When I met him his mental health wasn’t good and I stayed. It upsets me that when mine was an issue he jumped ship. Think he thought it was just me and not an illness. I don’t think I really explained that it wasn’t just me..I’m not sure I really had time to reflect at that point, although I always knew I had ocd of some sort. It’s only till recently I was able to delve deeper into the specifics.
Can other people share their experiences with this in relationships? Have others had similar experiences?
Hello, I am planning a solo trip in early march for 10 days, going from Chongqing to Guilin, and would like some feedback on my itinerary and any recommendations or advice for the trip, in particular about the transportation, that is my biggest concern, but I will get to the specifics in each part. I hope this is the best way to pose these questions and I'm not overpacking the post.
Just for context, this is my first time going to China. I like cities and nature, particularly mountains and I don't mind hiking or climbing. In particular for nature I prefer the more natural or adventurous paths, and avoiding big crowds (I'm aware that is unlikely where I'm going).
So, this is my rough itinerary:
**Day 1**: land in *Chongqing* by morning/lunch. Stay for 2.5 days, 2 nights.
I'm not focusing too much on this, since it's a city, I don't like planning too much, as everything is relatively close and accessible and I can explore and adapt the plans as I go. Also there is already a lot more information available about it.
Having said that, I will still leave here what I have in mind going (depending on time), from what I heard or saw: Hongyadon, Luohan temple, Liziba metro station, Deyi world (at night), shibati, chiqikou. 9th street, testbed2, Guanyingqiao. Go to the zoo to see pandas. Go to the other bank for the night skyline views.
**Day 3**: take a night train to *Zhangjiajie*. This would save travel time and money.
**Day 4 and 5**: arrive early day 4, explore Zhangjiajie, leave on day 5 in the evening.
Although I still don't have an exact plan for this, I was thinking of seeing Yuanjiajie, Tianzi Mountain?, Tianmen Mountain (the cliffside walkways, Tianmenshan temple) and Baofeng Lake. I'm not sure whether it would be better to stay in Wulingyuan or Zhangjiajie city or even inside the park. Also, what should I be expecting in terms of weather and crowds (and is there anyway to avoid them) in this time of year?
**Day 5**: leave in the evening for *Fenghuang* (Phoenix) Ancient city, arriving between 20:00-21:00. For this I saw a few train options that would take 1h with many departure time choices.
See Fenghuang at night, and the next day. Leaving again in the afternoon/evening.
**Day 6**: Leave for *Fanjingshan*. Here I saw that there are buses that go from Fenghuang to Tongren and Tongren to Jiangkou or Fanjingshan base. Is it preferable to stay in Jiangkou or Fanjingshan?
Taxi is also an alternative, is it recommended?
**Day 7**: go at the earliest possible to hike to Fanjingshan temple, return at the end of the day, and stay one more night there, rest from the day and be ready the next day for the longest trip.
**Day 8**: leave early to *Yangshuo*. Here is where I'm having a bit more trouble finding transportation, as apparently there are no direct connections from Tongren to Guilin/Yangshuo. The only option I found was to go back to Fenghuang and there take a train to Changsha and then Guilin, From Guilin to Yangshuo the connection seems short and easy by train. I would arrive almost at the end of the day, so I intend to just enjoy the evening around the town, visit West Street (Xi Jie) and whatever else I can find.
**Day 9**: Bamboo rafting in the Li river.
**Day 10**: Guilin airport and fly out. If I have time, visit Longji rice fields first.
I am having sometimes some difficulty in finding the right transportation and details. Any recommendations of convenient and trustworthy apps or websites that I should know to make booking transportation easy and safe? Websites like [https://www.travelchinaguide.com](https://www.travelchinaguide.com) , [https://www.agatetravel.com](https://www.agatetravel.com) , [https://www.chinabusguide.com](https://www.chinabusguide.com) have been useful for finding trains and bus schedules (sometimes), but I can't find anywhere to book them or check availabilities. I'm looking mainly on [Trip.com](http://Trip.com) and [https://www.agatetravel.com](https://www.agatetravel.com) . Could it be too early? But how early can and should I be booking these?
Let me know if there is anything big I'm missing or that I should avoid. Thank you.
Então, saiu hoje a classificação e atualmente estou em 42, e meu curso tem 30 vagas.
No entanto, um amigo meu conseguiu a classificação 35 e passou na primeira chamada.
Alguém entende melhor o sistema de classificação? Pq não faz sentido o 35º lugar ser chamado.
A classificação é um ranking de tds que fizeram a prova, incluindo AC e as demais cotas??? real não entendo.
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im giving jee in 2026 and as the title says. i have absolutely nothing done thoroughly. basic concepts might be there for most chapters but i havent practiced any chapter thoroughly. im not asking for sympathy or validation. im going to start working as hard as i can from now on, because i cant waste my time and energy into thinking if its still possible or not. I'll be frank, a few motivational words might push me even further, so feel free to do so but my main point of the post was to ask for tips. please share as many tips as you can, baaki ka mai try karti hu. drop lena plan mei nahi hai. iit ki ummeed bhi zyada nahi, but i do hope to achieve a tier one college like bits. to be fair, bitsat also happens in may so i feel like comparatively zyada time bhi hai. wish me luck!
I just tried to run the new UI-TARS model from bytedance with ollama as proposed on their website, but i basically get only non sense replies. Any body else facing similar issues?
For context: My girlfriend and I broke up 3 months ago due to long distance. We went back and worth on deciding whether or not we should be together and in the end we just kept hurting one another with this emotional back and forth, so we decided to officially end it.
3 months passed and her birthday was coming up, when we broke up she asked me if I was gonna text her for her birthday, I said yes so I decided when the day came I would. Mistake. I texted her and got no response, I then texted a day later and still got nothing. I was pretty devastated considering the love we shared and the fact she literally asked me to text her for her birthday. I could only assume she had moved on or didn’t engage because she was scared to open up old wounds, which I totally understand but it still hurt.
3 days later I open up my YouTube and go to my watch history to find a video I was previously watching. But instead I found 2 songs by the arctic monkeys, one titled “do I wanna know” and the other “r u mine”. Both songs have to do with a person who is in love with someone and wants to get back together, but is unsure if the other person feels the same way.
Now I knew this wasn’t me because I don’t listen to those songs so I thought, who else has my YouTube account and sure enough it came from my exs place. Now I had never seen her use my youtube before and I checked my past history nothing was out of the ordinary so I thought it was super weird that those specific two songs were on my watch history and only those 2 nothing else.
I had only logged on to my YouTube from her place in August and have seen no activity from it until a couple days ago. I’m most likely crazy and way overthinking this but I would love to hear from all of you. Could this be her sending me a message or am I crazy considering she didn’t even answer my birthday text? 😂
Hey everyone,
Is there a plugin available where i can put multiple one shots and samples on different pads just like MPC. Iuse serato and slicex for sampling but I can only load up 1 sample only. Also link in any video which shows a way of doing this in FL studio.
My main problem: I have amazing vocal chops one shot but I cannot create a rhythm from it easily because they are not single sample.
Please help
Hey guys, so my puppy is slowly starting to get better with crate training but I think I’m really starting to develop anxiety around it and bedtime. He does ok, whines for a minute when he first gets put down, last night when he got up a second time to pee he went to bed immediately which is a win!! But then the third time, it was HORRIBLE! I don’t know why but the second/third time going out at night he’s ready to be up even though the sun is still down so I ended up getting back on the floor with him to calm him down and he ended up sleeping an extra hour but I’m so mad because the last two nights I was able to sleep in my bed and I feel like I just went backwards. HELP!